[HELP] My 1st Child Is Not For My Husband, I’m Scared I’ll Lose My Marriage If I Tell Him — Lady

A distraught Nigerian lady has disclosed that her first child belongs to another man other than her husband.

In her quest to get the pains off her chest and to get people’s opinions, the lady who wrote anonymously confessed that she had an affair in the early stages of her marriage which resulted in pregnancy.

The lady said she confirmed the child whose gender she did not reveal albeit on purpose belonged to the man she had an affair with after reports from a test she ran was made available to her.

According to her, she’s very scared and has the feel her husband might soon find out. So, she’s asking if she should tell her husband. She is afraid and doesn’t know if he will forgive her. She stated that she loves her husband and also wants to keep her marriage.

Read her story below;

“I am not here to be judged. i need help, please. I am uneasy. my first child is not for my husband. I had an affair early stages of my marriage. I regret it so much. I did the test some years ago and reports shown this child is not for my husband.

“I love this child with all my heart none the less. I and the father of my first child are still close, we don’t have sex or anything. He is married. I take my child to see his/her biological father often. My child knows him for now as an uncle.

“My issue is this. I love my husband and he has been the best man to me. I get scared my husband may find out if our child falls very sick one day. I hate my husband taking this my child to the hospital for any reason. i get scared. even if it’s for cough.

“Should i tell him directly? will he forgive? Because the biological father of the child wants to be a part of the child life at some point.

“I want to keep my marriage and i love my children to grow up under one roof.